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Discussing Sexual Assault with Aly Raisman and the Serious Implications for Our Community

&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Tulane University Campus Programming hosted its first in-person event in over a year in the McAlister Auditorium with Aly Raisman&period; TUCP and Title IX fostered a moderated Q and A styled discussion with Aly Raisman&comma; an American artistic gymnast and two-time Olympian&period; Moderated by Meredith Smith from the university’s Title IX office&comma; the discussed Raisman’s experience as a sexual assault survivor&comma; along with advice and personal testimonials&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<div class&equals;"wp-block-image"><figure class&equals;"alignleft size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;tulanemagazine&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;Screen-Shot-2021-10-19-at-1&period;28&period;14-PM&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-10480" width&equals;"369" height&equals;"321"&sol;><figcaption><em>Instagram&colon; Geauxtucp<&sol;em><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure><&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">As seats filled the auditorium&comma; I noticed that the room was overwhelmingly filled with females&period; The lack of male representation spoke volumes of the patriarchal powers at play when it comes to rape and sexual assault&period; Male ignorance of this issue is a loud and violent silence&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Raisman’s first point of the evening addressed honesty and advocacy&period; Her impact statement is rooted in defiance&period; Rather than falling into the feminized prototype of the &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;victim&comma;” Raisman works to defy not only her abuser but the larger institutional powers that push these damaging agendas&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Her sentiments morphed into reality only minutes into the discussion&period; Raisman politely paused and asked if the bright auditorium lights could be turned down to prevent a future migraine&comma; a common and painful experience for the gymnast&period; After asking&comma; the lights were dimmed&period; Moderator Meredith Smith highlighted how such a simple yet overlooked act of self-advocacy saved Raisman from an agonizing headache&period; This small example of honesty highlights a much larger theme in Raisman’s life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Raisman walked along the fine line of her portrayal as a female victim&comma; balancing anti-feminist tropes of being over-emotional with her own experience&period; During her testimonial&comma; Raisman made the decision not to cry&period; She put up a wall&comma; because she knows an emotional woman is not seen as strong&comma; intelligent&comma; or knowledgeable- rather nothing more than a victim&period; Raisman acknowledged that if she cried&comma; she would probably have been believed&comma; but seen as a mere victim&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Raisman avoided crying even the private eye of her family&period; One cannot lock away the trauma&comma; yet she tried to turn it away&period; Raisman continues to work on opening up and accepting vulnerability&period; Would the media have covered her statement the same&quest; Would she have been regarded the same&quest; Yet Raisman chose to remove herself from the common discourse surrounding female victimhood in terms of sexual violence&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Raisman’s current goal involves balancing enjoying her life with the current trauma she deals with&period; She used to think that others would assume she fabricated her story if they saw her laughing or happy&period; The theme of balance became evident through Raisman’s tone&period; She repeated this sentiment&colon; How many more times do survivors have to talk about their abuse&quest; How many more times do we have to post&quest; How many more times do we need to ask for help&quest; <strong>How many more times…&period;<&sol;strong> Raisman noted that this fight pushes for something that should be obvious&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Raisman makes the point that all of the pressure falls on the survivor or the victim&period; There is a pressure to seek help&comma; to find resources&comma; to find justice&period; We as a Tulane community&comma; survivors of sexual abuse or not&comma; have an equally important job&period; Nonsurvivors need to invest just as much time in these issues&period; Men on campus must learn to acknowledge&comma; understand&comma; and dispel patriarchal norms and rhetoric that leave room for anti-feminist dialogue and mistreatment&period; If you hear about something suspicious or know you can stop a situation&comma; take action&period; Survivors&comma; as Raisman notes&comma; should not always be the assumed mandated reporter&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Tulane University is not doing enough to aid survivors and stop the abuse&period; Yes- there are systematic establishments that provide outlets for reporting assault&comma; but the disgusting continuation of this issue speaks volumes on its own&period; The student-run Instagram account&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;boysbeware&period;tulane” which exposes and highlights anonymous stories of survivors&comma; posted their Q and A following the Aly Raisman discussion&period; One anonymous reply wrote&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;You have to tell your story dozens of times over and over reliving it every time&period; It’s genuinely painful having to think of being violently raped over and over again&period; I ended up having <strong>to stop the reporting process and case because it was so overwhelming&period;<&sol;strong>” Another post said&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;So many girls don’t want to go through it because they male they get involved right after their trauma and ON TOP OF THAT does little to nothing to reprimand rapists&period;”&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<div class&equals;"wp-block-image"><figure class&equals;"alignright size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;tulanemagazine&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;Screen-Shot-2021-10-19-at-1&period;28&period;20-PM&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-10482" width&equals;"352" height&equals;"257"&sol;><figcaption><meta charset&equals;"utf-8"><em>Instagram&colon; Geauxtucp<&sol;em><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure><&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">In the interview&comma; the moderator mentioned Tulane had not completed a holistic statistical analysis of sexual assault rates since 2017&period; According to the report&comma; Smith reports that 40&percnt; of females on the Tulane campus reported a sexual assault&period; These statistics represent nearly half of the female population&comma; and on top of that&comma; countless assaults remain <strong>unreported<&sol;strong>&period; This also does not account for gender non-binary students&period; The fact that the last comprehensive report on sexual assault was in 2017 is appalling&period; There are handfuls of women on campus assaulted each <strong>night<&sol;strong>&comma; let alone 5 years&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">We should be angry&period; This article is not merely an overview of Aly Raisman’s interview&comma; but it is a clear message to the school that <strong>more <&sol;strong>needs to be done&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Rape and sexual assault is also a community issue&period; If you read this article and think&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;it doesn’t affect me&comma;” it does&comma; and you are a part of the problem if you believe otherwise&period; There are systematic and warped patriarchal norms that come into play and ingrain beliefs within abusers that women and even men are open to objectification and abuse&period; The solution is not near but we must begin somewhere&period; Do not shy away from seeking help&period; Do not seek away from unifying against abuse&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Tulane’s 24 Hour Assault Hotline&colon; 504-264-6074<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">SAPHE Peer Hotline&colon; 504-654-9543&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">National Sexual Assault Hotline&colon; 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